Thursday 7 January 2021

Year Long Goals for 2021



Hello 2021.  So far I am a big fan so don't screw it up.  Hahaha.  The past two years upon entering the New Year my word had already chosen me.  The first year the words came to me while I was outdoors.  I paused and took in my surroundings and just like that my word became PAUSE.  Last year I knew I was going to practice GRATITUDE and I even hoped to get my children on board.  I didn't succeed with that, but I continued to work on it myself and it was honestly the exercise I needed in my life to get through 2020.  As of last night, Jan. 2nd, no word had come to me.  I was going to go without a word and then a friend said hers hadn't appeared yet either and she was going to just give it time.  I decided that I didn't have to have it all figured out at the beginning of the year, but type A me really likes solid plans, and that I had let it come to me and practice a little patients.  Well, guess what?!?  This morning while I was on the toilet (maybe too much info) but it came to me!  CONNECTION.  That's my word for 2021.  Connection, or re-connection, with family and friends is going to be huge for me this year.  I mentioned this in another post, but I miss getting a solid hug from the people that I love and love me back.  Here are a few year long goals for 2021 and how this idea of CONNECTION will hopefully serve me.


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1. Relationships.  Over the last few weeks of 2020 I have really been thinking about the friendships that I have and which ones I want to nourish for the future.  With social media it's easy to get caught up and want it all but, what I really crave is authentic relationships.  So as, fingers crossed, restrictions lift over the year,  I want to host friends over consistently, schedule a walking date or a zoom date with a friend on a weekly basis.  I've been jotting down a list of people that I really want to invest more time into.  In the same breath thanks to 2020 my relationship with my family is stronger than ever.  We have been doing a lot more outdoor activities as a family, even as simple as taking the dogs for a walk, or choosing a show to watch all together.  I want to continue that in 2021, especially as my girls are getting older being intentional to create opportunities to spend time together is critical.


 

2.  Run 1000km in a year.  This is going to be an interesting goal because I don't want to get hung up on the number especially if at some point that isn't serving my body.  This is where "CONNECTION" is going to be helpful.  I need to be able to connect to my body, it's needs, and what it's telling me, in order to keep it healthy and strong, and not bulldoze to that goal at any  cost.  




3.  Read 12 books.  I love reading and this is a great goal to ensure that I create time to do an activity I love.  Connecting with my brain and learning new things.  






4.  Blogging.  This year there are a couple of mini-goals that I want to work towards.  First one that I need to figure out  a routine and schedule for taking photos, creating content, writing posts and reading other blogs.  At the same time, I need to create a balanced schedule between IG and blogging, because doing both on the same days just ends up with me spending a LOT of my time in the virtual world and not my real world and I don't wan that.  The other goal for myself is that I would like to collaborate with other bloggers more this year.  Growing my relationships with others virtually and also growing my connection to others.   If you have any advice please share away.




5.  Finances.  We were very lucky in 2020 that our jobs were secured but it really got me thinking about our finances. We have great money management skills and have made huge gains in working towards paying  off our home before our children enter college, and we have decent  retirement plans through our jobs and we never have credit cards debt, rather always pay for our "wants" in cash or save up over time.  But   what we didn't have is 3 months worth of savings in our bank account in case one of us lost our jobs.  Because our trips were cancelled in 2020 we were able to put that money into a savings and also do some projects around the house.  Now that we are building that cushion, one of my goals is to work towards adding a significant amount to that pile each month.  I am not sure to be honest what that number is yet but we would like to go through out finances thoroughly and decide what's reasonable, while also allowing ourselves to save and dream of taking a family trip.  Balance is key.


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6.  Photography.  Okay, so I took my learning that I've done over the past few years and finally started doing some family photography sessions this past summer.  Nothing major, just for learning opportunity and to CONNECT with my creative side.  It's been going really well and I am finally taking the risk to say it out loud to people without feeling embarrassed or insecure of what people will think.  You can find my work at A & H Snapshots on Facebook.  I wan to continue to learn and grow this small venture in 2021 and not be so shy about it.  





7.  Continue to reflect and work on my attitude of gratitude.  There is no better way to connect to yourself than to reflect.




These are my long term goals that I will need to come back to over and over and over again.  Usually I like very quick, easy to check off goals, but this year I am going with a balance of specific and more board goals that I want to consider.  

What is your practice at the start of the year?

Do you set goals?  
Do you make resolutions?
Do you choose a word?
Do you take the year as in comes?


17 comments:

  1. It's great your goals are so related to your word for the year, it shows you are on the right track! I hope you do achieve all the goals you have set! I'd like to spend more time in person with friends this year too, I did have a long overdue catchup with a friend at the start of the week but now that's all in doubt again, haha. We are all in a 3 day lockdown due to a case of the virus being found outside of hotel quarantine for the first time in 113 days. Fingers crossed the lockdown isn't extended!

    Hope that you are having a great weekend! It will be a quiet one here!

    Away From Blue

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    1. Oh my goodness,, that's so sad. I do hope it stays contained and doesn't spread like wild fire. Our cases have escalated a great deal over Nov, Dec. and now they are staying status quo but high. But we do our best to get outdoors and do the things that we can.

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    2. Yes we are so lucky lockdown worked and it hasn't spread too far, but they continue to investigate and we are back to mask wearing indoors, but everything is open and working again. Luckily I picked up a few cute reusable masks on sale back last year when we had more strict restrictions.

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  2. Isn't that gratitude journal fabulous?? I bought a different one when I filled it and my new one is yuck. Going to muddle through with it but miss my old gratitude journal so much.

    Congrats on having your WOTY find you...albeit while you were 'busy'. But that's okay!! I think I have settled on mine, too. Light. It keeps showing up in places. Going to examine that.

    Ditto ditto ditto on all the goals. Need a new treadmill over here. As luck would have it, we gave our big clunky one away last January and then the gyms closed. I really want a smaller, portable one anyway but seems silly to go buy something we had and gave away. I just can't figure out how to balance blog reading and blog writing. No matter how hard I try, I can't keep up. And throwing in FB and IG and all the other initials just makes my head spin. Too much.

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    1. Oh Leslie, that's sucks about the treadmill. Are you able to get outdoors for walks? Although, I know many people tie their walks on the treadmill with a favorite show or something.

      I am starting something new for myself with the blog and IG. I've dedicated certain days of the week either to the blog or to IG. I have a 30 min. pop up on IG and then for blogging I am setting my timer between 30 and 45 minutes and what I can get done is what I can get done. And on Saturdays I am trying to write my post for the following Friday. The dedicated days are really helping me because I am not trying to do both and work and be a mom and....... at the same time.

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  3. Connections are so important and I love your word for the year! I'd love to do a post collaboration with you this year if you're interested!

    Jill - Doused in Pink

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    1. Hey Jill! I would 100% be interested in doing a collaboration with you. That would be fantastic. Let's think of something and connect before spring.

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  4. Your word for last year AND this year are so spot on!
    I want to up my running this year. Do you want a virtual running buddy?
    I'm with you on building connections with other bloggers. I'm still trying to find my niche and find those bloggers who are willing to make those connections back!

    @ms.meranda

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    1. I would love a virtual check-in running buddy. Do you have a buddy to run with at home? I am so lucky that my best friend moved back to our city and we've been running together 2x a week ever since. Even through COVID because we are outdoors, we've kept it up.

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  5. I love reading how everyone is planning the year ahead and growth. I have a lot of similar goals. Being outdoors has been such a blessing.
    www.chezmireillefashiontravelmom.com

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    1. 100% agree with you. I think my children are figuring out how to also stay active without their "regular" cross-curricular activities and I think it's going to benefit them in the long term.

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  6. What a great word! My word is embrace... and has many of the same connotations as yours.

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    1. Oh, I love that!!!! What a strong and yet inviting word.

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  7. Loving your goals for the year, babe! Here's hoping that 2021 can be better than 2020- I think we've got a ways to go, but I'm hopeful!

    -Ashley
    Le Stylo Rouge

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    1. I agree it's going to be baby steps back to "normal" but if we can begin to take those steps with the vaccine, I am all in.

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  8. I love your word for this year, and you have some great goals! I like that they are a mix of personal/fun and practical. I know 2021 doesn't erase the evils of 2020, but I'm looking forward to this new year!

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  9. Bo, you have set some lovely and very inspiring goals for yourself! And I really like your word of the year. I have chosen Perspective for myself this year but Connection is something I may have to focus on next year. Thanks for sharing and linking with me!

    Shelbee
    www.shelbeeontheedge.com

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